Had a narrow escape from one abusive relationship, you were thankful and grateful that you left because if you didn’t, life would have been horrendous…but then when you try and date or are even remotely interested in someone, they also seem abusive? It’s worrying because you start wondering if you can ever have a healthy relationship again. Like, seriously,
Are all men fricking abusive?
The answer to this is simple: no, they are not…there are plenty of healthy men out there, too.
So I firstly congratulate you on discovering that there is a pattern with your relationships, because some women end up going their whole lives without ever noticing this.
Secondly, being aware men are abusive is also a huge milestone to celebrate, as many women (including myself), do not realise that they are being abused at the time of it happening.
Trust me on this one – I had to do lots of research to realise that I was in an abusive marriage, and then discovered my previous relationship to that was also abusive, but I had no fricking clue!
Like, how does one not know what the difference is between abuse and a healthy relationship?
To find out more, please watch this short video explaining some of the many answers as to why we end up in these abusive/toxic relationships without even realising…
I hope this helps you feel better and please subscribe and follow for more information on dealing with perpetrators and healing from abuse.
Keep smiling at her in the mirror!
Sanita xxx
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