Has your court case been going on for TOO LONG? Do you feel like your ex husband is utilising the legal system to further abuse you? Does it feel like the process of divorce is never ending?
If yes is the answer to any of the above, then please know you are not alone and then know this:
This experience is making you a stronger person and also is setting you up for the rest of your life!
Divorce is making you stronger
How so? Because the greater our enemy, the greater we become….so really the joke is on your abusive ex-husband/partner…they are making you into the Queen you truly are. They are helping you with the following:
- Becoming more emotionally resilient. Let’s be honest – if you can handle them and their abuse, then you can handle anything that comes at you in life.
- Becoming more patient because if it was up to us, we would have completed the process so much quicker and more efficiently, but this process is teaching you patience which will serve you in a later stage or project in your life.
- Becoming more confident by simply going through this process, as you may have had to go to court, legally represent yourself in court, the constant stress of dealing with solicitors/attorneys and the legal system. Look back for a second and see how far you have come and how much you have grown…
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Although I just referred to the ex as the enemy, they really aren’t the enemy, instead they are our greatest teacher by helping us learn more and more about ourselves, which can help us in future relationships, future businesses, future parenting and just life in general!
Something else that people might not tell you is that you are actually crushing your ex abusive partner’s confidence and ego by simply leaving them in the first place and so all the fighting they are doing in or out of court is to try and get you back! It’s because they are hurting! They are not happy! They are trying to redeem their own ego! Crazy, I know, right?
Divine timing
But let me leave you with this…please know you were chosen for this battle because some higher power knew you would get through it, because it knew you were the one strong enough to stand up and endure and get through it.
You reading this is no accident – this message was sent to you in divine timing, so I hope you know that you are stronger than you think and you are serving women all around the world by not only leaving an abusive partner, but being brave enough to stay away too.
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Keep smiling at her in the mirror!
Sanita xxx
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