What the hell do I know? Why am I ‘qualified’ to tell you anything?

I was so proud of myself that I had managed to put a lock on my door…all by myself. I even used a drill thing to make some holes. It wasn’t perfect but I knew I would at least feel a tiny bit safer with the mediocre deadbolt than nothing at all…you see, he was coming back from work and I didn’t want to be anywhere near him, I was scared… 

I have been a victim of domestic abuse and have been scared out of my mind, had PTSD, in fact my whole life all I have ever seen is abuse. 

So after I left I decided to dedicate my life to understanding perpetrators and also understanding ‘us women’ who end up in those horrendous situations. I have had the privilege of networking with women from all over the globe, I have had the chance to mentor and coach women from several different countries too…and through this time I have learnt that there are patterns within our psychology.

These patterns are within ‘us victims’ and also patterns within the perpetrator, too. I don’t want you or anyone to struggle to find the answers to your questions, so I am going to share everything I learnt with you! So you never end up suffering, ever again! If I can thrive, then YOU CAN, TOO!

I would doubt myself all the time!

I have been there with the self doubt, not knowing if I was the abusive one, feeling guilty all the time, treading on egg shells, wondering if he would change, wondering If I could cope alone, what would life be like if I left? I have been where you are at, maybe not exactly, but in some way, and I want to tell you that life does get better, it doesn’t have to be the way that you think it must be…

How can Psychology help you attract LOVE?

Improve mindset, confidence, and LOVE towards yourself, including the ability to attract healthy men, too! YOU deserve a real, true, healthy love and let me tell you that it is absolutely possible for you! It’s easy when you know how…I have learnt a lot of techniques over the last few years which have tremendously helped me, and which I will gladly pass on.

What is this all about? What are the benefits for you?  

This blog is about sharing the knowledge and psychology I have learnt to give you a better understanding of: 

·         Who perpetrators are?

·         Who victims are?

·         How to heal from abuse?

·         How to love yourself again?

·         How to attract a healthy love?

My hope is that you blossom, and find yourself, and find a healthy love, so you KNOW what LOVE really feels like! 

Sending lots of love and light…and keep smiling at her in the mirror!

Sanita xxx